
We moved this morning, but not as far as we'd originally planned. We decided to follow the sunshine, so we headed south - about 6 campground rows. Yep. We're still at Organ Pipe, but in a new site, in the "No Generators" section. Just a tad quieter and less populated. We'd just settled in when an elderly gentleman wandered up to our back door and said he was looking for his wife. She'd taken the dog for a walk, and the dog had returned, but without the wife. They were supposed to be leaving today. Darell offered to drive him around the campground to look for her, so off they went. Not much later I saw a Park Ranger driving slowly down the road, and I talked to him about the search. He said that the man was a bit confused, and that he (the Ranger) had told him to stay put at his campsite and that they would all look for the wife. I told him that if she turns up and now there's a missing husband, that he is riding around with my husband looking for her. When Darell returned (wife still not found), he said that the man was very confused and distressed. We took a walk around the perimeter trail to see if she had perhaps walked out there and fallen, and there were others also searching around the campground. When we got back, we went to the man's campsite and asked if the wife had turned up - she had! As we were standing talking to him, the wife came walking up , and I asked her if she was okay. She said, "He has Alzheimer's" and I said, "I'm sure you told him where you were going." "I did, I did," she said and "I'm sorry you bothered" - and the sadness, the weariness, and the guilt weighed down her words. "It's okay," I assured her. We went back to our site and waved as they passed by in their van, heading home, or someplace else.
A life story is a fragile bubble. Enjoy the chirping of the birds, the laughter of children, a hand held tightly in your own, or a shared joke with an old friend. For everything is in a state of change, of coming into being or passing out of it. And when all is said and done, it is the moment that counts. Each and every one of them, for each and every one of us.